Core Values

"Your beliefs become your thoughts. Your thoughts become your words. Your words become your actions. Your actions become your habits. Your habits become your values. Your values become your destiny." - Mahatma Gandhi (1869 - 1948), Indian Political and Spiritual Leader

Christian Core Values –
Faith Motivated We are Faith Motivated to serve as Christ would serve. -
People First We prioritize People First in our decisions and actions.
Service Excellence We promote Service Excellence in all that we do.
Mature Stewardship We wisely manage our resources with Mature Stewardship.
Big-Hearted We share our Big Heartedness  with others through our gifts, talents and abilities .


Core values are the important foundation that drives all other aspects of our lives.


I Stay True to My Values, Regardless of the Circumstances.

I stay true to my values, regardless of the circumstances.

My most important mission in life is to stay true to myself. I put a lot of worth on committing to the things I believe in. Even when unpopular, I choose to protect and uphold my beliefs because they keep me honest.

Each day I encounter family, friends, and acquaintances. I am conscious of differences in thoughts and actions and respect them. But I avoid adopting them just for validation.

When family members make questionable decisions, I hold them accountable. I remind them that it is my responsibility to be forthright even with my family. I avoid viewing their decisions as acceptable when they are misaligned with my beliefs.

I let my friends know the lines I am unwilling to cross. I am happy that they respect my point of view. Genuine friendships are able to withstand tension that comes from differences in opinion. My true friends appreciate me even when our thoughts differ. Our diversity helps to keep our relationship interesting.

Sometimes my coworkers cause new employees to feel out of place. I avoid joining them by helping new persons to feel welcome.

Today, I am happy that I have values to help me make wise decisions. I know that being true to myself always pays off in the end.

Self-Reflection Questions:

How do I address my peers when I want to point out their unkind and unnecessary actions?
Which of my values can I impart on my family and friends?
How do I respond when my decision is met with unfavorable feedback from my peers?

 

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8 Tips to Create a More Loving Relationship

1st Peter 3: 7 - 9 -  The same goes for you husbands: Be good husbands to your wives. Honor them, delight in them. As women they lack some of your advantages. But in the new life of God’s grace, you’re equals. Treat your wives, then, as equals so your prayers don’t run aground.

Your relationship with your spouse has the potential to be the most fulfilling experience in your life. However, there are snags that can happen at every step of the way. No one ever said that relationships were easy!   The good news is that if you stay proactive, you can foster a loving relationship no matter how many weeks or years you've been together. When you create a more loving relationship, you make both you and your spouse happy. You won't find much better than that! 

Here are some tips for creating a more loving relationship: Show your gratitude. If you love your partner very much, than you're obviously grateful for them. However, you need to learn to express your inner feelings. They  need to know that you're grateful. It shouldn't be something that goes unsaid.

You can show gratitude by being more open in your conversations or by taking loving actions by buying gifts or suggesting ideas for quality time. Also, remember the words: "Thank you!"

Incorporate more fun into the relationship. You two may have separate ideas of what fun is, but try doing things together that you both enjoy. It doesn't have to be anything big and extravagant, just try to find something simple, yet exciting.  The key is to do something where you both won't know exactly what to expect. This adds that "special spice" to the relationship and helps stave off boredom.
Go out of your way. Yes, going out of your way for your partner may take some extra work, but it'll be worth it! Decide to make a grand gesture for your spouse. Do this out of the blue and  they will really see that you care.

For example, you could throw them a party or take care of something that you know they don't like doing.   Do activities they want to do. By making the sacrifice to do something you're not all that interested in, it'll make your partner feel loved and honored. Of course, there'll be interests you share, but make it a point to join in for an activity they really enjoy more than you do.  Guys, if your wife has always wanted to go ballroom dancing with you, perhaps it's time to bite the bullet and go through with it.  (after COVID of course)

Keep their needs in mind. As the years go by, it's so easy to fall into patterns and restricted comfort zones, but you mustn't forget about your spouse's needs.  If they enjoy an extra hug every once in awhile, go give them a hug.  If they like to talk about feelings and plans, sit with them and talk.   Say: "I love you" regularly. It seems that you can never say these three simple words enough. Say it, text it, email it, record it, show it. Do what you have to just to remind your partner of your true feelings. This little phrase actually helps communication, lightens the mood, and fosters a more loving relationship for many years to come.  

Listen actively. While it's important to express your own feelings, it's also critical that you truly listen to your partner's feelings. When you actively listen, you'll begin to understand your partner in a new, deeper way. They'll also feel loved because they'll see you being attentive and they'll feel like their thoughts and feelings matter.  Support their ideas. When you agree with your spouse's ideas, make sure that you fully support them in both words and actions.

This feeling of support will help your partner feel loved.  When husband and wife's don't agree, it's still important to remain loving. Don't shoot down your partner's ideas or become overly critical. Accept what they're saying and suggest alternative ideas if needed.   Follow these tips, encourage your partner to do the same, and you can't help but have a more joyous, loving relationship!



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